What’s your name?
They say that a rose by any other name would still smell as sweet. But if you call it a stink weed would it still have the same idea of smelling sweet?
So many times, we call ourselves by what we’ve done and what we do. But there are other times where we see ourselves by what we wish we hadn’t done. Is that a bit too philosophical and out there? Probably. Sorry.
What’s I’m trying to say is that when it comes to being healthy–physically, emotionally and spiritually–we need to also look at forgiveness.
It’s so hard to forgive I think. It’s hard for our bodies sometimes to forgive us for putting it through a hard workout. It’s hard sometimes to forgive others when they’ve put us through hard times. It’s hard sometimes for us to forgive ourselves because of our own body image. erg.. again.. philosophical.
Let me try this again…
you ever just want to beat somebody upside the head with a baseball bat because of what they said to you? yeah. That feeling. It’d be great to do that sometimes I think. But we can’t. It wouldn’t be too good to do something like that. And it’s even harder to forgive them. And you know what, somewhere out there there’s someone who wants to do the exact same thing to you because of something you might have said or done did to them.
Now, take a step back, put down the baseball bat and think this through. Do you want to be called forgiven? Forgiven from what you’ve done to others, forgiven for what you’d like to do with the baseball bat? No, seriously, put down the bat.
Forgiveness is a two way street. God is willing to forgive us but sometimes we need to be willing to forgive God. Sounds weird. I know. But it’s true. Sometimes you might just want to take that baseball bat to God, huh? Put it down.
We also need to forgive others for what they’ve done to us. And we need to seek forgiveness from those we might have hurt and who want to take a baseball bat to us.
So, why is it healthy to forgive? Dude, so much to say that is too long for a blog post, that’s for sure. But in short, a lack of forgiveness just builds up in us. And when it gets too big, we just want to act out that frustration on something, someone. And this can come out through a workout, through going at it on a heavy bag, to wanting to (put it down) get a baseball bat.
Forgiving does something to us. It helps us to let it go. To not let someone or something have control over us. And to tell the truth, if you don’t forgive, that anger can really build up in you.
What is your name? Who do you need to forgive? Who do you need to ask forgiveness from?
Trust me, just starting down that road will lead to a better healthy life physically, emotionally and spiritually.